Parenting is not an easy job as we think, while it is the very hardest job. Everyone become parents but important is that from all few parents become best and example for other, but why? Why not every parent becomes best? What are the things they do not do for their kid? Where are they lacking in parenting? All parents adopt the best style of parenting but some are successful and some of them not stand on their will. And they do not become good parents.Positive parenting means simple give positive guidance, disciplines etc but their simplicity shows a grand effect to their child and they make strong their developing stage.How to be tell or judge which one is best in parenting and who is positive parenting, an answer is their kids. From a kid’s manners or behavior, it becomes easy to judge a parenting. Everyone wants to positive in the relation to kids or parents but for some reason, they not maintain and some of they don’t know how they become positive parents. We tell you some golden rule which helps to know you what a positive parent’s deal with their kids and what you should do for becoming positive parents.
8 Great Tricks of Positive Parenting
- Always keep eyes open: when your child is very small you need to care for them how to keep secure to child but when your child come on developing age you should always keep your eyes open, because what he learn or what he do in developing stage you should become his guide to tell him what is right and what is wrong, in teenage you control his behavior become and aware his activity because it whatever you teach him in developing stage that will be result of your parenting and your result come out on teenage of child. So you should give attention to your kids and his activity.
- Understand kids: this is very necessary for a parent to understand their kids and try to understand things according to kid’s mind. Because no one understands your child better than you. Positive parents have the power to understand to their kids and find out the reason behind that according to child point of view. You also aware with your kids mind what he thought in particular situation, from this you can help to your child and teach him a right thing.
- Give proper time: everyone needs time of his special one and for kids, their special one is their parents but if they do not give time it becomes harmful for parenting. Positive parents manage all things together; they make time for everything on that time they do not give chance to other work. When a kid spends too much time with parents, it maybe becomes easy for a child to interact with parent and easy to make them their priority or first choice.
- Not communication gap: Positive parents always remember to continue communication line with kids because of they aware that if one time here creates gap it become difficult to handle for them. They do not become like that as they wish. So they always keep in touch with kids and never are giving permission to creating a gap between them.
- Maintain friendly environment: we all see that children are very close with their friends rather parents, because some parents set their mind that they elder from them and start scared to kids. And then children go outside they find a person who understands them and to who they share their feeling. But positive parents do not do like that, they stick become anger but not all time, they make the friendly environment in their home. Where a child no need of other, he happy with their parents and may share all things with them. Because child knows that no one gives good suggestion except parents.
- Praise to kids on achievement: A good parent always praise or appreciate to their kids in every small achievement, they know very well their praise motivate him or appreciate to do better. They encourage him, parents are the first teacher of kids who teach you to the meaning of the dream and teach the way to reach there. So praising support to go a far for dreams. So many parents pull back to their kids to do better it badly effect on kids. You should know that how you motivate to your child.
- Don’t fight in front of kids: every person elicit their frustration with their partner, they not see the right place, right time only start fighting. Some time they forget their kids also there and they continue to fight in front of kids but a positive or good parents know very well how to deal with their frustration and when they fighting each other, they keep away their kids from fighting, because it effect to child mind and they learn that thing what they see not your moral education. So keep away your child from your fighting.
- Participate in activity: a symbol of positive parents is they always take participation in all activity of kids. They also become kids as their kids, not run away from their help and take full part in all activity whether that is a mental activity or physical activity.